ni semua gara2 mendengar forum smlm di Dewan Utama, anjuran Quranic Generation III. apakah fitrah di atas mengongkong kita? apakah sbb lelaki mempunyai 9 akal bererti dia sngat pintar? apakah ertinya wanita mempunyai 9 nafsu bererti dia sgt boros ketika berbelanja?
Allah itu cantik & Dia sukakan kecantikan. Allah itu Maha Bijaksana. nak bagi kita berpasangan pun, Dia make sure kita punya charges (cas2) bertentangan. what i mean here is, lelaki & perempuan saling melengkapi. lelaki, setelah berkahwin, berfikir beberapa kali sblm berbelanja. wanita akan meminta pendapat sang suami sebelum berbelanja. that's kindda sweet huh?
but then, ema agak x setuju bila org menggunakan pernyataan di atas 'wanita ada 1 akal 9 nafsu' apabila dia boros berbelanja. sebenarnya, boros atau x boros, semuanya terdapat dlm mindset kita. kalau kita jenis yg sgt berhati2 ketika berbelanja, insyaAllah, x dpt la gelaran boros. betul x?
well, my mum & dad dah berkahwin for almost 25 years now, and i can assure you that my mum is not the 'boros' type. even though my dad gives her monthly expenses, she tries to stay within the budget, never overspending. so, when i listen to how CERTAIN people wasting money buying stuff just to cheer up themselves, not thinking of the future. i mean what will happen when you run out of money? well, i guess i will just keep quiet.
alhamdulillah, both my parents have educated me well, not allowing me to overspend on stuff i don't really need. i guess, it all depends on our parents & our environment. my dad is the bread winner of the family and he's just a small businessman. sometimes he has his ups, sometimes he crashing on the ground.
a lot to be thankful of....Alhamdulillah...
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