row on a boat or ride a horse?

relationship is never easy. and it is never a straight path.
(you'd think i was in at least 3 relationships. but i was never in one)

a lot of people were very sure of a relationship at the beginning of it, where the flowers were blooming on each sides of the garden, the river was calm and the weather was perfect for a date outside.

and then when they reach a hurdle, that's when everything is tested.

distance, time, work, trust.

then suddenly the flowers began to wilt, the boat started to rock and there is a storm. 

will you survive?

if you water the plants, if you don't panic on the boat and look for a shelter to survive the storm, then maybe you will.

but if you just stare at the plants, scream and panic on the rocky boat and just stand in the rain waiting for the storm to pass, then maybe you won't make it through.

but you would know how i love horses and Mr Zorro and riding into the middle of nowhere? (you'd know if you have been reading my blog)

i would like to address my future relationship as the horse riding experience.

i may be terrified of heights (i really am) and i've never went horseback riding before.

and i've never met my Mr Zorro, so i have no idea how he will be.

but if he has the patience and strength to help me on a horse (because i'm fat and heavy), then calm me down while i am on the horse freaking out if i would be okay, then maybe we would have a wonderful journey in front of us.

but hey, why is he playing the hero part and you just act like a princess?

okay. i will get down and dirty as well. 

if he doesn't like horseback riding, then maybe we could just walk with the horse. 
if he hates or has a phobia with horses, i will hold the rope myself, and he can walk beside me. we can accompany each other, gripping each others hands bracing for whatever that might happen after that. (what if the horse started acting out and gallop away? or what if he jumps and i let go of the rope?)
P/S: did i mention i am kindda paranoid of the possible circumstances of...EVERYTHING?

the thing is, relationship is a two way thing. you complete each other. you never let go of each other no matter what lies ahead,

if one is feeling like shit, the partner should make some tea and sit by the other on the couch, try to lift his/her spirits up.

if one is happy and delighted of a promotion, they should celebrate. hug, kiss or dance, order some pizza and have some quality time with each other. watch a movie or something.

life is simple. we complicate things. 

our brains do. 

other peoples words do.

don't let anybody else control your life, but you.

you made a commitment to each other. stick by each other. no matter how shitty things get.