love & cheat

byk sgt post yg ema cerita psl love kan?? hihihih...but then hari nie, ema nk share stuff yg ema tgok & experience sndiri. actually, ema x penah pun fall in love...but then kalau kata x penah fall in love tue, mmg ema tipu la. ema byk kali fall in love-ngan ciptaan Allah (mcm ari nie, ema fall in love ngan a small, cute puppy yg ema jumpa kt dpn kedai apek), lagu2 ciptaan manusia (contohnya, mcm lagu Rascal Flatts, Nick Lachey, Anuar Zain), character2 dlm filem @ drama (contoh mcm Fahrin Ahmad dlm Dalil Cinta), budak2 comey yg ema jumpa kt mana2...sgt byk! but i've never fell in love, as in the LOVE thingy wingy! hahaha, wat the hell am i talking?


ema tgok 'Lipstick Jungle' ari nie, and in this particular episode yg ema tgok, one of the character yg dilakonkan oleh Brooke Shields, she cheated on her husband. i mean, she's the only person i look up to in this series, sbb dia brkerjaya, has a wonderful family with two kids, & yet blh hang out with her buddies. but then she got sacked recently, and had nothing to do her husband flew somewhere on a business trip, she's left with her son. so, she tagged along ngan another parent, who is a guy & the hang out ngan that guy the whole day. and by night time, that guy kissed her. she felt so damn guilty coz she's married & all, but she confessed afterwards that she liked it. 'Oh, SHIT!' i went from the couch! i just couldn't believe this! how could you say this? haiyo!!

but then bila pikir balik, she became like this becoz she didn't have anything to keep her busy. from working about 8 hours a day to nothing to do on the other day, is hard actually kan? hmmm...so then i forgave her. hahaha...then, it clicks me, that this scenario happens to people around us. walaupun bukan dlm the same situation as Brooke Shields (a kiss from another man), people still cheat in other ways. contohnya, dlm kes org lain, bf dia x lyn dia, & so dia flirt & lyn laki lain. that's still cheating kan? or, dia totally ignore bf dia & then keluar ngan laki lain, and eventually fall in love. still cheating kan? sometimes, even mmbalas mesej @ answer calls from another man in the middle of the night instead of the bf pun salah kan? still cheating kan?

promise rings, trend skrg

mcm wedding vows, suami isteri akn janji never to cheat on one another, to be with one another, till death do them part; people yang dlm relationship pun do the same kan? janji xkn curang, janji akn tetap sayang, janji akn terus setia, janji xkn layan laki @ pompuan lain...tapi bila diorang langgar janji yg diorang buat, itu kira salah kan? hmm, i understand Brooke Shields position in the series, but will i understand people yg 'cheat' in a relationship, given other situations? i don't know. maybe i will & maybe i won't, sbb, i can't stand the whole cheating concept itself dlm a relationship. how could u juz end a relationship just becoz u found another man?  man who is more interesting than the man u have now? let me tell u something la kan? every man is interesting in the beginning of a relationship. then, bila kita dah tau semua psl dia, keluarga dia, cerita lama dia, history dia, kita akn mula naik bosan. trust me, ur relationship won't last more than two years. people i've known through these years have been in a relationship, but didn't last more than a year. some barely reaching a year. itu pun, relationship diorang dah agak basi bila masuk the 1st year.

some people x than ngan ujian mcm being apart, x mesej selalu, x call selalu. diorang ckp, 'dia dah x syg kat aku. dia dah x amik kisah psl aku' hmm, is it true? x tau la...but then kalau harap nk calling2 slalu, teruk laa...mcm mana nk study? sbbnya, lps calling2, msti kpala otak dah x leh nk concentrate study, sbb pikir ayat2 manis si dia, bygkn muka si dia, lwk2 jenaka yg dia ckp...hmm, kalau tiap2 hari mcm nie, nahas laa...mcm mana nk score? hidup mcm mana? lps kawen nanti mcm mana nk sara anak bini? haiz...ramai x pikir bnda2 nie...atau mungkin ema yg pikir byk kot! hihihii....x tau laa...but let me tell u something. ema x rasa ema akn fall in love like many others. my dad had told me long ago that guys can never be trusted. never trust a word they say. never let them control you. at first, i didn't believe in him. i went to college & i knew everything he said was true! thanks dad! his wise words taught me a lot. i also discovered that not many parents told their children what dad told me. =)

found this...it's true though! @_@