satu teguran

satu teguran untuk saudari2 muslim di luar sana...ema banyak brgaul ngan org & ema byk tgok perangai semua org...bukan nk ckp ema nie baik sangat, ema ada sikap yg x baik dalam diri ema gak...ema sedar ema perlu perbaiki diri ema gak...


but this is something i realized smakin byk berlaku dlm klgan kwn2, kenalan2 & even strangers yg ema x kenal...
ada saudari2 Muslim kita kt luar sana yg upload pictures x pakai tudung kt dalam net walaupun actually dia pakai tudung...u see, you've done a mistake here, dear...you should realize yg bila kita pakai tudung, kita sbnrnya dah galas tanggungjawab yg agk besar...& so kita kena jaga diri kita baik2...


so, problemnya skrg, kita sdg expose aurat kita kt org lain, ajanabi...you can say, 'gambar tue bf saya ja yg ada' but sapa boyfriend tue, tetap ajanabi bg kita...x ka dosa kalau kita bukak aurat dpn dia, even through pics? di tetap nmpk aurat kita, walaupun melalui gmbar...


yg lagi sedih is ema tgok, org yg dah brkhwin pun ltk gmbr dia x pakai tudung kt internet...astaghfirullah...
so, please la...tolong, remove all of those pics kalau boleh...jgn lah kita buat lagi bnda2 kecik yg blh earn kita dosa instead of pahala...sgt mudah utk dpt pahala, & at the same time, sgt senang nk dapat dosa...the coice is in ur hands...


one more thing ema nk tegur is, kalau korang webcam ngn anybody at all, plz sgt, jaga aurat tue...even though kita kt rumah, we must be very careful kalau nk webcam ngn org lain...doesnt matter kalau kawan skolah, kwn sjk kecik, watever....sini ada tips sikit utk korang...



1-make sure pakai tudung lek lok, jgn bg nmpk anak rambut, ekor rambut, suma tue make sure tutp elok2
2-make sure x pakai baju yg sendat2, baju jarang2, even pijama (kalau blh tukar dulu baju before date webcam)
3-dun wear makeups if possible, coz thats part of aurat as well, nanti kalau laki tue pikir bukan2 kita yg dosa...
4-jaga la prcakapan tue, its part of aurat as well...jgn ckp bnda merapu2 or bnda x senonoh, dpt dosa gak...


and one more thing nk tegur sama...kalau korang pakai tudung tue, make sure ekor rambut tue dimasukkan dlm anak tudung, jgn biarkn dia keluar mcm tue...coz guys can see how long ur hair is, & thats part of aurat...
so pay attention to these tiny details bila pakai tudung..remember, these small details yg kita miss yg menyebabkn org dah x respect people yg pakai tudung nowadays...pada diorang, org pakai tudung & x pakai tudung sama saja...guess why? coz org yg pakai tudung pun tgh expose aurat dia sama mcm org yg x pakai tudung...


so, kita kena angkt balik martabat org pakai tudung by paying attention to little details yg kita anggap remeh...
insya-Allah, i hope apa yg ema smpaikan ni blh dijadikan iktibar...remember, i'm also trying to change. This is part of my changing process...