stating the obvious

i watched one comedy show in my laptop and there's this one comedian guy who said 'We, Malaysians, like to state the obvious' and he goes on talking on how we Malaysians call bald people, 'BOTAK' if we dunno the name of the guy. and how we call people 'GEMUK' if the person is a bit chubby.

but the thing i wanna state here is that not only Malaysians state the obvious in calling names. we, *in general* state the obvious. if a person said something not nice, then there is people who says, 'Hey, you know you're being mean?' and 'Don't say that!' 


in reality, we aren't the only ones doing this. sometimes they do the same thing but as i said, people only state the OBVIOUS. rarely do people think and reflect on themselves BEFORE they said what they wanna say. too bad, it's kindda too late once the words have been said.

reflecting ourselves is kindda the hard thing to do, but yes, we need to do it. once we do it, we'll feel better on ourselves. we feel as if we're matured and we've done the right thing, instead of BLURTING out to others. 
trust me, will you?