marriage...again!

Assalamualaikum, and a good day ahead everybody. i know i talked about my attraction to weddings before this, but i just can't help when people are already discussing and sharing pictures of a woman in her niqaab, married to a guy. and these people commented, "ohh, so lucky!", "WOW! Allah is sure gonna bless her", and "sejuknya hati"
err, excuse me, am i missing something here? 
you see, from what i know all along is, as long as you cover your aurah, according to the teachings of Islam, you're good to go. there's no such thing as, Allah's gonna love ypu more because you wear niqaab and Allah loves you less because you wear the 'normal' 45' tudung. it's your choice actually to wear whatever tudung you want, just cover your aurah. 
girls who wear niqaab are known as the stronger people, who have enough bravery to cover their faces from people, walk in the crowd, handling the pressure when all eyes are set on her. that's a big challenge. but still, that doesn't determine anything. a Muslim is tested in so many ways by Allah. so don't go around figuring out who's been tested most by Allah. 
the other funny thing i found out is that girls who wear niqaab smiles not only with her lips, but with her eyes. i really can't accept this, because some people still laugh with their eyes, even without covering their face. 
'You're stuck with me and my laughing eyes'-Colbie Caillat
why would Colbie Caillat sing a song with a lyric like that if it's not true? 
if you still don;t believe me, try smiling in the mirror, and instead of looking at your smile, look at your eyes. if your eyes are glowing, glittering with joy, they are smiling as well.
all it takes is the eyes of the person looking at you.
i guess, the reason why they came with that statement is that girls wearing niqaab have already covered their face, so the only thing you can see is her eyes. of course you'd notice she's smiling. 
yeah, that's about all.
and yes, one more thing. not only girls who has NEVER EVER EVER spoken or be friends with boys would feel shy to shake hands with her husband once she is officially his wife. please, don't be so judgemental. i am a girl, and yes, i have a lot of boyfriends, but i know my barrier. that doesn't mean i won't feel the sweetness in holding my partners hands for the first time. 
and please, don;t just exclude me from this thinking and go around saying this girl and that girl have no pride being friends with boys. please. she's only human, she make mistakes. but don't judge her.