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Friday 11 May 2012

boys will always be boys

i went to a campsite here in Jerteh, Terengganu today-this morning actually. and we hiked all the way up the not-so-high hill and we finally reached the waterfall area, one of the highest area in the campsite. we went all the way up because some f our friends would like to get themselves wet, and because we're all girls, we wouldn't want anybody to watch us swimming. hehe...
somewhere around 12, my friend wanted to go to the toilet and i accompanied her there. on the way down, we met with a lot of boys, guys, men. by right, they would let us pass and just make way, but the opposite thing happened. they were making it hard for the two of us. they kept smiling & grinning at us, and when we decided to walk on the solid ground instead of the track, the boys would lean close to us and ask us, 'heading home?', 'ah, so cute' and stuff like that. crazy, but i'm kindda used to it. boys. 
so, all i did was kept my head down and walked faster. for i wouldn't want more of them to disturb us.


so, the thing i would like to emphasize here is that stuff like this will always happen. the only thing we can do as girls is just ignore to smile it away. there were a couple of boys who said goodbye to us all, but instead of saying goodbye back, i smiled it away. at least x delah nampak sombong sgt, sedangkan dia dah cakap goodbye. lagi satu, kalau laki bagi salam, ignore je. tadi ada sorang laki tu bagi salam, bila ema teruskan berjalan, that guy said, 'aku dah agak dia xkn jawab' instead, one of his friends answered the salam. hehe...
nampak sangat intentions these boys bukan jahat pun, saja ja nk kacau. nak isi masa lapang. nak uji kita mungkin? boleh jadi jugak. so, take care of yourselves, jangan sampai org anggap kita sombong, play nice but be safe. 

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